I'm grateful for Gitea. It performs well even on slow computers (fitlet2 equipped with an Atom x7-E3950 and 16GB of Ram in my case). Gitlab, on the other hand, doesn't, which is a shame, because I love Gitlab (using it at work) :).
A typical open-source project is written by its users; if you want a feature, contribute, don't demand. The project can (but not always does!) choose tools that are best in long term and fit the problem domain better, even if they require time to get started / involved, and longer to get an MVP out the door.
Go checks both boxes: it lets move fast, but also is a reasonable long-term choice. I used to shy away from Go-based projects, but after 1.18 I have to admit that Go becomes acceptably pleasant to use!