"When your neighbor is out of work its a recession. When you are out of work its a depression" - said someone
https://mronline.org/2022/05/26/u-s-federal-reserve-says-its...
In any cases total wages (well, income) are equal to GDP so I don’t think anyone is against an overall rise (in real terms).
They get directly compared when getting a mortgage though - typically there's affordability criteria including the ratio of income to mortgage amount.