If you'd please review https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and stick to the rules when posting here, we'd appreciate it.
Maybe the problem this person is having is that everyone around them is telling them what they want to hear?
What exactly don’t you like? Your comment doesn’t even make any criticisms. Do you not like I suggested that someone try being introspective rather than blame everyone else but themselves for their problem?
> any response that disagrees or is critical can be framed as a personal attack
No—if you respond respectfully and in the intended spirit of curious conversation, that would not be a personal attack, even if you disagree.
You didn't do that. You responded extremely aggressively and personally. Posting like that to HN will definitely get an account banned, so please don't do it again (regardless of how bad another comment is or you feel it is).