I don't need to ask my abusive family for anything, because I make more money than everybody else.
What I was trying to explain is affirmative action is based off an assumption that black and brown kids need more help to get into good schools, over Asian kids or white kids. This is just not the case, each individual has their own story, their own challenges.
And yeah, you definitely have the wrong understanding of what affirmative action is and why it exists. Firstly, it doesn't just apply to "Black and brown kids", it applies to all minorities, including Asian people and women. Secondly, obviously everyone has individual challenges, no one is denying that; but someone's cohort does, in fact, impart systemic obstacles and lead to a harder time, on average, attaining opportunities that other groups, on average, have an easier time finding. It doesn't mean all Black people have no opportunities, or all white people have plenty; it means that on average, certain groups (including Asians and white women) have systemic disadvantages that are unfair.
No one thinks, for instance, that Morgan Freeman or Samuel L. Jackson are struggling for opportunity; and no one thinks, for instance, that there aren't homeless white people with abusive families struggling just to survive. But it's not about the individual situations. It's all about systemic opportunities and averages.
Well you're getting no financial aid at all if your estranged from your abusive parents.
This is what happened to me, I did get some help, the rare times my mother wanted to cooperate. For the last year of college she didn't.
It would do better for society to completely ban affirmative action, but stop requiring parental income information on financial aid forms.
I've had so many friends, who had to run away from abusive homes, since their own parents liked to hurt them. As in like, one friend reflecting on her abusive relationship with her parents, said "Cops complicate things".
And when this happens, you don't want to document it. You don't want to build a massive paper trail, to prove you've been abused. Even if you can, getting a dependency override is ridiculously hard .
If you have abusive parents, society tells you no college for you until you're 24, unless you somehow mystically pull enough money out of your behind to pay out of pocket .
A black kid with a supportive single mother, even if they struggle, even if she barely makes minimum wage.
Is doing much better than an Asian kid with a parent who beats him. That's my point.
Affirmative Action ignores this.
I think domestic violence is so common , that we just need to give everyone a bit of help.
It doesn't matter what you look like.
Low income students are obviously disadvantaged in the admissions process and current affirmative action processes are not remedying it. So the question remains: why shouldn't socioeconomic status be added as a factor for affirmative action?
This is explicitly not true, unless you mean that affirmative action applies to Asians by negatively affecting their chances of college admission. Could you cite a source as I'm confused where you'd get this idea from?
I literally listed multiple examples of Asian friends having horrific home lives, and I'm just trying to say look.
Stop assuming they're automatically doing better than their brown and black friends.
Stop telling black and brown kids they need extra help to get into a good school. This actually messed with me when I was a kid. Am I somehow inferior ?
Anyway, the post got flagged so I expect this to go down within 20 or 30 minutes .
I wrote this post because I woke up and I just felt good about life in general, And I got some upvotes.