> The other replies are assuming networking in a big network is inherently slower than in a small network.
well yes, not true with modern switches that support cut-through forwarding
it's super-common in our space to bypass the kernel entirely, writing into the NIC buffers directly with prepared packet headers, and the card has pushed part of the packet out onto the wire, through switches and into the target machine's NIC buffers before it's even finished being written
typical "SLA"s are 0 packets dropped during a session, where a single drop raises an alert that is then investigated
> You will never be able to replicate the performance of Google's network by buying some rackmounted servers from Dell and plumbing them together with Cisco switches.
and yet, somehow we do quite a bit better (admittedly they are very, very expensive switches)
I get that people that work at Google like to think they're working on problems more advanced than those of mere mortals, but with the latencies you've described we'd be out of business several times over
(not to mention none of the clouds support multicast)