Whoever comes up with a way to encode this dynamic in a smart contract(s) could make a killing - or at least raise a lot of money hehe.
The reality is very few people know they can chargeback and most use debt & instant payment option for low ticket high volume transactions.
If something was holding crypto from being used to pay for daily essentials, it is not charge back ability.
The bigger point of crypto is that this trust can be parametrized and made transparent in a public ledger with less intermediaries. I see it as getting to feature parity, not as something that undermines trustless-ness - don't throw the baby out with the bathwater.