You could also easy make the opposite criticism of capitalism: it doesn't recognise abundance and builds almost everything on (often artificial) scarcity.
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Free banking ("everyone making up their own money") was never the disaster currency monopolist would like you to think it was.
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You say locally made up rules that apply only locally don't scale. Does it really scale to have locally made up rules (because they always are) that are enforced globally?
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But yes, many anarchists do exactly what you propose: they experiment way different ways to collectively make decisions. They don't shun all rules.