>If I were raised by my parent-clone I would have matured faster and been more skilled at playing baby-roulette with a natural child.

This is leaning heavily on the assumption that your personality is primarily a product of your genetics, and not of your life experiences. Outside of relating on physiology, what makes you think you would understand their reactions to unique life experiences at such a young age?

Speaking as someone who had a dramatic personality shift from early trauma, I don't think that what you hypothesize is true.