That is not true at all. Proprioception is top of mind for every serious VR developer. Outside of poor software performance, it's the #1 cause of simulator sickness. Short of hacking the vestibular system, there's nothing we can do about the lack of virtual acceleration cues. So we design within the constraints we have. It's why you see teleport locomotion. It's why developers get into such arguments over "smooth movement" with gamers who think they know better. Lack of proprioception with virtual movement is a huge problem that we would love to solve, but laypeople have an irrational fear of a little extra electricity getting piped through their ears, so I doubt we're going to see much change there.
Fixed-view, wearable displays violate proprioception even more than VR HMDs, because they don't even give you the real acceleration cues you get from actually moving your head.
As for your question about distance, I suspect you're looking for "accommodation". Accommodation is the physical distortion of the eye to change the focal distance of the lens. Combined with vergence (the distance at which our binocular vision rays converge), the two systems work together to give you a sense of how far away something is (among other things, like atmospheric hazing, parallax, and trained memory of similar objects). Most modern VR systems lack the ability to account for accommodation, leading to what is called "vergence-accommodation conflict". It can be a source of eye-strain for some people, but it tends to be adaptable over time.
Note that I said "most" modern VR systems. It's an active area of hardware research, as the solutions--light field displays and varifocal lenses--are large, complex, and therefore expensive. The latest developments in "pancake" optics, where focal distance for the lens is folded in on itself via a clever system of internal reflectance, has a possibility of bringing the size down, but unfortunately not the complexity or cost.
So again, it's really not fair to say developers are "ignoring" these problems. We are all extremely aware of the them. There are just some things you can't do anything about without a major breakthrough.