@cheald, clearly this isn't your fault, and you don't control the tenor of the discussion of mongoDB. What follows isn't a criticism of you, but more a general comment.
I don't think that criticism of mongoDB should be stifled on HN (it clearly still has huge flaws--the lack of granularity when grabbing the write lock comes to mind), but it seems like it's a little hard to have an intelligent conversation in this context. It might make sense to encourage HN to discuss mongo in a way that it's not criticizing a performance detail (no database can do everything for everyone), eg where it can be compared against other databases. When criticizing a performance detail, it might make sense to move that discussion to the MongoDB Jira, where your voice can actually help influence decision making.