For me coding is not a love story. It can be fun bit mostly it takes absurd amounts of time, time I would rather spend doing something fun and exciting. No, living in your head creating imaginary worlds isn't what I consider being fun.
Music creation, DJing, dancing, hanging out with people, traveling is more fun.
Coding is a means to an end, something to get me closer to the goal of not having to work because my income comes passively.
It's not a good life. Staring at the screen for hours days weeks years. It's imitation of life in every sense. Slavery even.
Also why do you care if people decide to be coders? Let them do what makes them happy