"Within six months, they had an actual user-affecting outage directly attributed to things on that team. We hadn't had any of them during my tenure running that service."
"As I've said before, enjoy your pages, guys. "
Maybe this is just typical sysadmin arrogance / all users are ID10Ts.
I also see signs of a paranoid attitude:
"I knew it was going to be a disaster and they'd use it against me".
Playing games of passive-aggressives:
"I was going to be cold and dry and only answer exactly what was asked of me."
Really if you drop of load on a co-worker in a team meeting you are going to get some blowback.
Her blog is also full of complaints of women not being treated fairly eg:
http://rachelbythebay.com/w/2011/11/23/hiring/
(has to walk across the road to get to her car)
Unleash the white knights!