I sincerely doubt that Firefox can leverage anything with Apple, or that Firefox engineers have much of a relationship at all with Apple. Who does, really.
I'm not sure it matters though. Many smaller Mac developers have a long history of using private API, and it's largely fine. There's no truly "safe path" with Apple, because Apple does whatever it wants whenever it wants, and I've seen them break "supported" API plenty of times, and leave it in a broken state. But the risks of any given brokenness are small, and you can't predict what will break from year to year, so what can you do except go with what works, and hope for the best.
It's certainly fair to say that the majority of applications on macOS do not have the performance profiles of Firefox, but it's also the case that the majority of applications weren't even using lower level primitives like OSSpinLock in the first place, so replacing it was not a concern.