Alternative to Cox? I don’t think you have actually tried Starlink, otherwise you wouldn’t say that.
For me, bandwidth is between 60Mbps and 100Mbps. Latency 50-100ms. But the worst is how unreliable it is. Muktisecond blackouts many times during the day and subsecond time-outs many times per hour.
SSH over Starlink is pretty painful.
In best case it’s an alternative to wireless service providers, but otherwise I would get a stable reliable 25Mbps DSL over Starlink any day.