And at this point, you are getting both attacked and supported by AI, and not really better off in a meaningful way.
There's no good way of solving this issue, without general intelligence, and the problems that will bring (what reason does a generally intelligent AI have for supporting us or not enslaving us).
This is why all AI research IMO is unethical. Point me to a single AI use that has not already been abused, maybe I will change my mind, as it stands though we should be prosecuting the people misusing this technology, or at least irresponsibly releasing it, as fast and as quickly as possible before we get the point we are no longer fighting bad actors but the machines themselves.
I don’t think AI research in a vacuum is as deeply unethical as you suggest. It’s about current societal context- people won’t like being worse at things; resources will be hoarded rather than distributed.