No. After seeing the devastation, the population would demand not to escalate.
Now even if that group is in the minority, how large of a minority would it have to be to at least question the 'guaranteed immediate strategic nuclear retaliation' assumption in our models and plans?
The weapons also tend to be in the hands of warmongers.
Finally, and probably more importantly, if a nuclear attack was immanent, the US President has something like 5 minutes to decide on whether to launch a counterattack.
The general population won't even have time to participate in this decision. They will just be wiped out along with everyone else.
TL;DR: Strategic bombing has been tried many times in the Second World War and after it. It has never caused the reaction you describe. It invariably stiffens the morale of the bombed population. It backfires very badly.
If you want to win a war, confine yourself to military targets.
1. https://acoup.blog/2022/10/21/collections-strategic-airpower...
A wise politician will convince the people that a x1 retaliation is enough and then make a deal with the other side to stop the destruction. Bout most politician will just launch a x20 retaliation to get more support from the crowd.
The MIC was doing its job very well back then to make a multi-trillion war happen.