Cripes. Nope.
If this was true, how do you explain backyard cookouts, pool parties, trick-or-treating, or Christmas present exchanges?
How do you explain folk dance festivals, buskers, and non-royal weddings?
How on earth do you explain hugs?
Cripes. Nope.
If this was true, how do you explain backyard cookouts, pool parties, trick-or-treating, or Christmas present exchanges?
How do you explain folk dance festivals, buskers, and non-royal weddings?
How on earth do you explain hugs?
Sure, but what, you're going to send the mayor to Jail (violence) over a political decision he made?
That would not be trivial.
Positive reinforcement is not antithetical to the threat of violence and can go hand-in-hand. If you're good to me I'll treat you like family. But violate that peace and me and my clan will come down on you with furious anger. That's how people have lived for time immemorial.
Our aversion to violence is not new. In ancient Rome, it was sacrilegious to bring weapons inside the pomerium.
How do you explain why you get to determine the guest list?