I should know, I've blown off most of my toes.
But, you know what they say:
"Good judgment comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgment."
I have pretty good judgment, these days (see "toes," above).
Well-written OOP, on the other hand, is a marvel of Quality, simplicity, maintainability, performance, and refactorability.
We often like to blame a tool, when it's really PEBCAK.
It's like we go to a bar, one night, and there's this old blues guy, alone, with a beat-up Telly and an old Peavey amp, making music that sounds like it came straight from God's House Band. It looks effortless.
So we rush home, buy a PRS guitar, and a Mesa Boogie amp, strike a pose, and hit the strings.
The cat grabs his favorite dead rat, and heads for the hills, never to be seen again.
The kids delete their TikToks.
The wife calls a lawyer.
Maybe there's something to be said for learning mastery of a tool, before disparaging it.