Invite your kids into your life. I like video games so I offer to play them with my son. I like movies so I find ones we can watch together. I like martial arts so when he’s old enough I’ll offer to do Jui Jitsu.
Kids are an amazing opportunity to teach and love
You are a parent, not a friend. Don’t only do things to please your children.
You are a person too, not only a parent. Do things yourself your children will be proud of you for; it will teach them to do the same.
We already know what happens when parents make their children a priority over everything else. I still plan to love my wife in 50 years and make friends I can invest in along the way, because one day my kid will be grown up and out on their own adventures.