The real world of compulsive hoarders (2013)
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Wife and my daughters all have strong tendencies toward it.
After years of struggle I got immediate family hooked on KonMari method for what to keep.
It’s been amazing for them as now that everything they own has a specific place, they don’t want to screw it by having something without an assigned spot.
My budget has improved dramatically from reduced spending.
Wife’s parents bought a much larger house and a huge workshop space bigger then the house. Initially everything fit.
Bet my wife by end of a year it would all be filled floor to ceiling.
I won the bet :(
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50+ rats!!! I have pictures.
Psychology is kind of a mess.
A great many disorders are on a spectrum from normal variation to truly severe, disabling symptoms.
We also don’t know enough to definitively identify the causes of a person’s disorder. For example, many cases of depression are caused by circumstances. In those cases, depression may be an expected result. Other cases are inherited genetic defects, which no amount of circumstance can fix.
Edit: definitely -> definitively
Would you happen to have a Wikipedia link or two to some of the stuff you’re thinking of?
Some disorders could simply be the result of living in a modern society. Things like clinical depression, borderline personality disorder, bipolar, schizophrenia, and some PTSD are severe enough to exclude that as a primary cause.
And to make the snake eat its own tail, I’d argue that some of the traits that define some disorders aren’t traits that are inherently bad, but more mismatches with the expectations of “modern society”. ADHD being a prime example: https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/adhd/diagnosis.html Compare that to, say, BPD: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3494330/
The ADHD criteria mostly describe ways that the patient either doesn’t fit in to societal expectations (sit quietly for long periods of time, difficulty engaging in tasks that require prolonged mental effort) or the ways they annoy others (fidgeting, high energy that exhausts other people) vs. intrinsically self-harmful behaviour (unstable self-image, suicidal behaviour, feelings of emptiness).
The thing that intrigued me the most about it is that these are all contextual. Someone with undiagnosed ADHD two hundred years ago world have probably gotten by just fine. They might be known as a bit “different” in their communities, but could have readily found their way. In 2022, that gets much more challenging, especially since we’ve dramatically systematized things. 200 years ago, maybe you would become an apprentice potter or blacksmith; today, if your ADHD is so bad that you can’t finish high school (not because you’re dumb, but because sitting in a quiet class room followed by going home to study makes your brain bleed), you’re going to have a really hard time finding anything but the crappiest minimum wage job for the rest of your life. Depression, BPD, bipolar, etc? Those all have the same unfortunate outcomes 200 years ago or now.
I rather quote from the jargon file (http://www.catb.org/jargon/html/weaknesses.html):
"Many hackers have noticed that mainstream culture has shown a tendency to pathologize and medicalize normal variations in personality, especially those variations that make life more complicated for authority figures and conformists. Thus, hackers aware of the issue tend to be among those questioning whether ADD and AS actually exist; and if so whether they are really ‘diseases’ rather than extremes of a normal genetic variation like having freckles or being able to taste DPT. In either case, they have a sneaking tendency to wonder if these syndromes are over-diagnosed and over-treated. After all, people in authority will always be inconvenienced by schoolchildren or workers or citizens who are prickly, intelligent individualists — thus, any social system that depends on authority relationships will tend to helpfully ostracize and therapize and drug such ‘abnormal’ people until they are properly docile and stupid and ‘well-socialized’.
So hackers tend to believe they have good reason for skepticism about clinical explanations of the hacker personality."
In my experience (both as a walk-in consumer-patient and with friends who happen to be shrinks) psychiatry is at its best when it focus on functionality — can this person brush his teeth; can he walk among crowds (and not lose his virtue); can he hold a job, a relationship. Most gratifying for a psychiatrist in private practice (I’m told) is to watch someone go from Mozart-and-the-whale nuts to having a good career, marriage and kids.
Of course, in institutional settings people want to cure madness like one cures pneumonia. That’s fundamentally dehumanizing, though.
I finally made an extra repo just for hoarding, where I could toss old crap and assure people that it's safe and sound.
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I had a neighbor who gave his computer to another neighbor. I found dozens of browser tabs that had inevitably introduced malware. His addiction was innocent enough: he wanted online deals, coupon codes, and discounts. The browser extensions promised the world and delivered spyware, adware, malware.
I know someone who hoards many things at work... and also has 99+ tabs open at once (don't know the value of '+')
it is all measured its the extremes that are bad and really applies to anything.