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Some men of the nation do stand proud! They say No, I will not be cuckold in cuckolded marriage. They say No, I will not marry if it means the wife will have relations with foreign men because I am of insufficient size and stamina and I will know of these relations. Those men who say No will be single men but they will also be men of dignity.

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Is cuckolding really that common in Indian society? Or is this cuckolded as in the definition of “she has been with a foreign man before me” and the men are too insecure about her past?

Before internet it was unknown. Because of internet videos women now have new expectations for size and stamina. It is not about past relations with foreign men it is about relations that happen during the marriage. The local man who is of insufficient size and stamina knows that his wife finds satisfaction from men of other lands. The cuckolded man wants it to be a secret but it soon becomes known to all that he is a man with an unsatisfied wife. Hence there are men who say No I will not be a cuckold and so that man does not get married.

This is largely a mentality problem. Men are capable of choosing to self-select out of dating and marriage, but to project this issue on an entire gender speaks of personal insecurities.

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