Fifty years later, there's exactly one hacker space between San Francisco and San Jose, and it's barely clinging to life.
Don’t feel bad, just get out there and be open to what exists. There’s tons yet to discover in the Bay Area and even as we lose spaces we love, others rise.
Edit: and also even if you confine yourself to just hackerspaces (of which there are still several?) then remember that for many of them “barely clinging to life” is pretty much the state some of them have been fine with since their founding and if the pandemic didn’t kill them, they’re probably not likely to die off for real anytime soon.