There are tons of people hoarding flaws and exploits for ever piece of software imaginable (Apple included), often these people only work at the binary level and consequently having source code isn't that useful to them. The source code however
is useful to users of and contributors to the projects, and to some types of security researchers that focus on open source.
Using software means you will always be subject to security issues and privacy invasions, because programmers are human. Sticking with Apple just means you're still subject to privacy invasions and cannot fix them if you are allowed to find them, but going to Ubuntu means you can at least discover them or hear about them from other folks and patch them out.
Debian definitely has myriad privacy issues (link below), mostly inherited from all the open source software out there. It also has a strong culture of fixing those issues, including basic things like locally installed documentation loading images or JavaScript from the web. More help fixing them is needed though. The only official telemetry we (I'm a member) have is popularity-contest, which is opt-in and that will never change. There is also the hw-probe tool, for optionally submitting to the external Linux Hardware database site. The hw-probe tool isn't well integrated into the Debian installer/etc but if it were, it would be optional.
https://wiki.debian.org/PrivacyIssues
https://popcon.debian.org/
https://qa.debian.org/popcon.php
https://wiki.debian.org/Hardware/Database
If you're really worried about this stuff, I strongly suggest you look at QubesOS, it uses Xen VMs for compartmentalisation, both for security and privacy. It splits up your digital life into one VM per area, with temporary VMs for dealing with unsafe documents and stuff. The split is up to you and you can run whatever you want inside each VM, including Debian.
https://www.qubes-os.org/