why is it difficult for you and men, in your opinion?
But to answer your question, I get a lot off shit thrown onto me, unjustified things and I always have to adjust. (Sounds silly and not really a good explanation I know, but it's to difficult to explain right now.)
I don't understand your explanation, though. If you could restate it for me, that would be great. Also, it might help you as well to define it more. I think you can explain it comprehensively it if you set your mind to it.