In my opinion, in general, unsafe (outdated) devices should not be used as they are a huge attack vector because there are so many of them.
lol
half the people in the third world use their phones for 5+ years
Same goes for my SO's Galaxy Ace 4 Style, which she left lying there for an iPhone SE, but might return to the Samsung because the iPhone, while being a great device overall, will now require a battery replacement procedure because it wasn't designed for doing that at home and the battery is very much dead.
My Galaxy S8 is humming along nicely even though I subject it to a lot of environmental stress daily by e.g. showering with it in hand.
Bottom line is iPhones aren't that special in this regard anymore.
Maybe some budged non-flagship Android. You ought to compare iPhones to flagship Android devices. Because iPhone is a flagship device. Don't spread misinformation.