I tried them all, and continue trying when new things come out. No open model is capable of even remotely approaching the capabilities of GPT-3 or ChatGPT. Even if you had an equivalent trained model, running it would require enormous hardware.
While Stable Diffusion is pretty comparable to DALL-E 2 even on small hardware (such as M1 MacBook Air), this doesn't hold true for large language models. These need much, much more VRAM.