This sums up my feelings about the js ecosystem entirely. Lots of growing pains.
I've felt for a long time that every industry shift on the long road from simple server-side rendered monoliths to client-side heavy js SPAs we have taken a step forward in what is possible while taking multiple steps back in so many other dimensions (simplicity, security, dx, etc.) I think by the end we will be in a better place across all of these but it feels like we have been crawling out of a hole we dug ourselves to get there.