I've seen the same thing. About 5% are nasty and about 1% are truly bad people who commit horrible crimes.
I've seen the same thing. About 5% are nasty and about 1% are truly bad people who commit horrible crimes.
Much earlier in life I helped recruit for a cult (much has changed since then). 3% - 5% seems on the high side for people who "just suck" -- perhaps by an order of magnitude. But perhaps the "just sucks" is context dependent. I found early on the FORD bulletpoints makes it pretty simple to start smalltalk (Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams/Desires).
The reason the estimate feels high is likely that the HN crowd is progressively separated from less stable elements of society. The bullies picking on kids at recess don't generally make it onto the gifted / accelerated track, or your 4 year degree granting university. You're going to encounter fewer of them at upmarket shopping centers and corporate offices, if for no other reason, 1.5 million people are in prison.
[1]: https://www.bop.gov/about/statistics/statistics_inmate_offen...