10 - Fermi problems. Good to get an indication of a candidate's problem solving skills.
9,8,7,6 - The candidates's motivation, weaknesses, strengths, plans. What's wrong with that? Evidently, you have to modulate the answers somewhat, but the extent to which you do that well is indicative of your understanding of the job requirements, the competition, etc. Perfectly legitimate.
5 - Best candidate. Again, this is a fine question - it allows you to highlight your understanding of the job, and your fit, and your accomplishments, and so on.
4,2 - If you've had unusually short tenures at prior jobs, why? Again, perfectly legitimate question. There might be some reason pertaining to the prior company, or there might be a character trait with the candidate. Insofar as training a candidate incurs some fixed costs, it is legitimate to aim to find out whether they'll stay around for a while.
1,3 - "bad habits", family. Agreed, irrelevant.
But 2/10 is a pretty bad hit ratio for a top 10 list.