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Interesting, my takeaway from the article to be honest in almost all cases.

Positive disagreement seemed like a good example of being honest in a pro-social way. Expressing your honest view in a way that doesn't shut anyone down.

The author argues that mirroring people's opinions is boring for the other person.

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> The author argues that mirroring people's opinions is boring for the other person.

It’s also a major red flag in interpersonal relationships. I tend to keep my distance with people who use mirroring tactics because it can often be a sign of underlying personality disorders (chameleon effect).

>I tend to keep my distance with people who use mirroring tactics because it can often be a sign of underlying personality disorders (chameleon effect).

How did you learn that? (I think you’re right.)

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