It doesn’t really answer your question, but it’s an interesting reference point.
This might be predictable only for elevators (and even then, maybe cable designs/elevator designs can be changed to mitigate the effect of the height).
Everything else can have a design that allows ever larger height (larger vents for drainage, larger pumps for water supply, etc).
I DO see a problem with making the strength on each corner of a building dynamic - if you aren't moving the building back and forth to counter the wind, how would you counter the wind?
Like a weathercock?
Well, dunno about anyone else, but I'd jump at the chance to live in a (safe) building that always rotated to face the wind.
Also damping is achieved by dissipating energy through the counter mouvement of the tuned mass which is literally compensating for the movement put in place by the external force. It doesn’t totally offset it but still.
Many tall buildings have a tuned mass damper near the top that helps to dampen oscillations. It doesn't require any active mechanical devices. Taipei 101 has it out in the open, you can easily find videos of it during earthquakes.
(I mean, I'm being slightly facetious, but in general things which will kill thousands of people if there's a bug... well, you should be cautious)