Many tall buildings have a tuned mass damper near the top that helps to dampen oscillations. It doesn't require any active mechanical devices. Taipei 101 has it out in the open, you can easily find videos of it during earthquakes.
Also damping is achieved by dissipating energy through the counter mouvement of the tuned mass which is literally compensating for the movement put in place by the external force. It doesn’t totally offset it but still.
I DO see a problem with making the strength on each corner of a building dynamic - if you aren't moving the building back and forth to counter the wind, how would you counter the wind?
Like a weathercock?
Well, dunno about anyone else, but I'd jump at the chance to live in a (safe) building that always rotated to face the wind.
(I mean, I'm being slightly facetious, but in general things which will kill thousands of people if there's a bug... well, you should be cautious)