My home page, though admitted sparse and functional, is a total 39 KB download, including 9 link icons and a blurred full background image. (Turns out blurring the image allows you some incredible levels of JPEG compression with few artifacts.) I worked a bit to get it there. And that's nothing compared with what some demoscene folks can do. :)
The other day in one of my "get off my lawn" moments, I declared to the Rails app I was messing with that, "Every web framework sucks!" And then quickly amended the sentiment to include every test framework and build framework, for good measure.
I mean, they have their place for rapid development, of course. But the accompanying bloat and dependency surface hurts my soul.