> You don't slap the the bum enough to hurt, it's the event and the getting in trouble that disciplines.
Speak for yourself. The night master at my prep school would ensure that you thought of it every time you sat down for the next week.
Speak for yourself. The night master at my prep school would ensure that you thought of it every time you sat down for the next week.
I don't disagree that there's people that beat children in the world, that's different entirely and should be condemned.
Spanking should not hurt the child, if it does you're beating them.
Spanking is no longer spanking when it inflicts pain.
Straight from wikipedia.
There is no punishment mechanism to spanking without pain. This sort of strange homeopathic idea of spanking is unrealistic and I'm unsure why you're trying to paint this false picture of the world - the vast majority of parents who spank do so with the intention of causing pain to discourage behaviour.