If this wasn't the case, you'd have discovered a solution to famine.
And gastric bypasses are one of the most effective interventions available for people with such disorderd eating that lifestyle changes can't stick.
It is an objective fact that caloric surpluses and deficits are fundamental to manipulating bodyweight.
Any solution will be about getting people to maintain a surplus or deficit long enough to reach their goal weight.
There are many ways to communicate that to people, but pretending or trying to convince others that it isn't true is factually incorrect and literally counter-productive to their goals.
But it's ok. I loose weight by exercising and eating less. Like the climate change denialists, you can lead people down the dark path if you like.
Me I'll stick with me 3kg loss of weight every month and celebrate.
It's missing the forest for the chlorophyll.