I feel like (as an old person) trying to tell youngsters how to behave at college, seems, well likely to fall in deaf ears.

But I'm not sure your point holds water. If women want to date, they can. If they don't want to then they don't have to. These other students hold no power, assign no grades, and so on.

Perhaps the root issue is the demoralization of some not being offered dates or extra tutoring? But it's hard to see how that might be corrected.

I confess I don't see the actual harm here - those that want to learn can learn, those that want to date can date. I suppose those that want to date, but aren't getting any offers....?

Still, as an old man, I'm not sure I'm qualified to weigh in - but to me it sounds like kids being kids.