> "It's not gonna lick itself" and men in fishnets running around
Everyone in that video is more covered up than any woman at the beach, and if innuendo that kids won't understand is unacceptable to you, then basicly every animated kids' movie from the past twenty years would disagree.
> please go read /r/detrans
Please go read these statistics. https://journals.lww.com/prsgo/fulltext/2021/03000/regret_af...
There's a trend of anti-trans detrans people (this distinction is necessary, as not all detransitioned people hold the same opinions as those on /r/detrans) who describe genital surgery in a way completely different from what transgender people report. "Neo-vaginas" do not "fester", they don't require "lifelong" dilation, and those who've spoken about it assure us that they are perfectly functional for all relevant purposes (if you know what I mean).
> Its obvious that "validating" them is only a minimal, temporary solution, if even that.
Here's another study for you to read. https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal...
Sometimes we have to make do with anecdotes when there isn't enough data on a topic, but "is gender-affirming healthcare beneficial" is absolutely not one of those topics.