Here's an excerpt from Bertrand Russell summarizing Gottlob Frege's answer to "What is a number" [1]:
> A trio of men, for example, is an instance of the number 3, and the number 3 is an instance of number; but the trio is not an instance of number. This point may seem elementary and scarcely worth mentioning; yet it has proved too subtle for the philosophers, with few exceptions.
> A particular number is not identical with any collection of terms having that number: the number 3 is not identical with [page 12] the trio consisting of Brown, Jones, and Robinson. The number 3 is something which all trios have in common, and which distinguishes them from other collections. A number is something that characterises certain collections, namely, those that have that number.