Good thing I never said that the real world is based in rationality. But we should use our rationality both to make sense of the world and to shape the world so it is more reasonable.
Recommending that groups take revenge on one another for past behavior and wrapping it in some Orwellian term like "Asymmetric Behavior" is neither rational nor reasonable. It's immoral.
Sure there's a small delta between what you say and what others claim you say. Unless they verbatim repeat what you say there will always be a delta.
Don't pretend to don't understand the point they are making and address it.