As for getting information on AWS instances, the best way in my opinion is just to spin up the instance and look up which exact CPU model it uses. Then you can go for example to WikiChip (https://en.wikichip.org/wiki/WikiChip) to see more information about the CPU. Other good sources include Anandtech (for example https://www.anandtech.com/show/15578/cloud-clash-amazon-grav...) and Chips and Cheese (for example https://chipsandcheese.com/2022/05/29/graviton-3-first-impre...).
Things like NUMA configuration can be inspected with tools like numactl.