I asked for two things which are conceptually much simpler:
1. a project manager/file explorer solution (file browser plugins have always been super popular for Vim; plus Sublime, VS Code, etc, all offer file explorers, they're extremely useful for... exploring projects for folks.
2. moving the command bar at the top
And they were both closed as WONTFIX mentioning that the Neovim core is meant to be compact and everything else should be built on top.
So that would require someone making and maintaining a super popular Neovim "distribution". I'm not saying it won't happen, but both in the Vim world and the Emacs one it doesn't seem like any distribution "won out" and you're always worried your distribution will just go away at some point.
The command/status bar pops up in a modal akin to ctrl+p in vscode.
Not all plugin work, mostly the esoteric ones that spawn many buffers etc, but all your motions etc work fine.
Personally I find vscodes text rendering not as nice as alacritty for what ever reason, otherwise I would probably use it as my primary interface.
In other words, I like to have 1 LSP installed in my system for all of them.