Why be mean for? I open myself up and share something vulnerably here, and how do you respond? You try to invalidate it. That's not very nice.

I have my experience of it. That yours differs, why do you need to invalidate mine? Why can't we both exist? No I think it is maybe your world view that needs to expand, son, and by not being inclusive of mine, but instead trying to shoot it down you are displaying the very same inflexibility that I identified which you simultaneously pretend does not exist! Ha!! :) ;p xx ;p

Think about that next time before you're "blunt". A blunt instrument has limited use....even for artists! ;p :)