Personally I only care about GitLab because its open source with a good CI and because of Copilot.
If the supreme court says the copilot is fully legal, I would probably just revert to using Github for personal projects(their free tier is just unbeatable), i still use it more than anything else, because everything is on Github.
I am excited about Gitea Actions[1], as I feel gitea is generally only missing a decent CI system, and codeberg is growing fast.
1. https://blog.gitea.io/2022/12/feature-preview-gitea-actions/