I'm kind of lost how this salary should feel like 36k/mo. To me this is a salary that reminds me of my childhood-- paycheck to paycheck, looming foreclosure from being behind on house payments, constant fliers from electric threatening to shut us off.
That isn't remotely what my experience was. I maxed my roth ira, paid into my 401k up to what my company matched, and had plenty left over month to month. I paid off the small amount of student loans I had within the year. I didn't have to think or care about what I spent money on. I went to bars weekly spending $12/drink. Work comped my dinners, and I ate out everyday for lunch.
Articles like this have created this perception online that you will starve to death on a salary like this in SF. I guess my question is, 100k here feels like 36k where?