I've given up on trying to wrap SQL in any way. Too many bad experiences. I just use it as-is with fully dynamic types. My go-to stack is Postgres + NodeJS, no Typescript. No query builders, no ORMs especially. Postgres is meant to be used on its own with a minimal client lib. It works beautifully.

And my system is safer in the end because I take that time I would've spent fighting the type system / tooling and instead spend it writing integration tests. I get to do full TDD often. And the bugs I catch are never due to mishandled types.