> I'd much rather see engineers spending more time making the thumbnails load faster
Generally it's a client-side bandwidth/latency issue, not something on the server. Think particularly on mobile and congested wi-fi, or just local bandwidth saturation.
> The blurry thumbnails have 2 issues 1) trick person into thinking they're loaded
I've never found myself thinking that -- a blurry-gradient image seems to be generally understood as "loading". Which goes all the way back to the 90's.
> 2) have a meaning that content is blocked from viewing
In that case there's almost always a message on top ("you must subscribe"), or at least a "locked" icon or something.
These blurry images are designed for use in photos that accompany an article, grids of product images, etc. I don't think there's generally any confusion as to what's going on, except "the photo hasn't loaded yet", which it hasn't. I find they work great.