> move 3 power poles > House will be 3200sqft > Construction budget is $2m > impossible for new construction by family’s

Sorry, but this looks like one of the most incredibly out-of-touch rich people comments I've ever read. You're building a freaking castle in the middle of the city, moving roads around, and then you go on to say "families" can't build??

Maybe you're right and even building a modest home in the suburbs is harder than it should, but your project is definitely not proof of that.