I would say that most Americans want nothing to do with that in their bedrooms, but when we have to deal with that from our platforms we have to.
Can you point to anything substantial that supports this idea? The majority of Americans support same-sex marriage [1], and almost three-quarters of Americans (71%) said that being gay is morally acceptable [2].
Most Americans are liberal, which is why platforms move to ban hate mongers and extremists. Instagram doesn't care in the slightest about protecting LGBTQ folks. They just understand that most people don't want to participate in a hateful cesspit.
There is a reason that Truth Social and whatever right-wing trash app comes next will never gain any sort of mainstream traction, most people support deplatforming hate mongers.
[1]https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2022/11/15/about-six-i... [2]https://news.gallup.com/poll/1651/gay-lesbian-rights.aspx