This point of view is valid. But it is more complicated in software engineering because
1. autistic-autistic communication works just as well as (if not better than) neurotypical-neurotypical.
2. Being more thing-oriented on the people-things spectrum, our industry attracts more autists.
A culture of NT communication style will probably be more inclusive. NT won't have their ego hurt; autists have to wear the mask elsewhere anyway. But as someone with Asperger's (undiagnosed), I resent this. Case in point: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=35365508