If we're saying we have to do Conway's Law, we're admitting it's because we don't want to solve the above problems. If we say we don't want to follow Conway's Law, it means we have to deal with the above problems.
These problems are not insurmountable. But someone "in charge" does have to give a shit about them and decide the company is going to directly address them. And it's not just in service of architecture for its own sake; it's in service of a product being built better, so the customers and employees can be happier, which can then drive profits.
You can always get profits another way - be a monopoly, exploit a market flaw, lie, cheat, steal, pressure your employees, cut costs until the product bleeds, offshore, exploit tax havens, or all of the above and more. But happy customers and employees is more sustainable. Not as much growth, but the company will still be around in 20 years without having to fight for survival.